I can't believe it's been nearly THREE years since a blog reader last hired me to do a wardrobe consultation! So when one of my favorite fellow BLOGGERS emailed me and asked me to help her revamp her wardrobe, I was a little nervous but mostly thrilled to dive back into styling. Here's her "Diabolina Styled Me and I Liked It" story.
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Diabolina and I first “met” when I used to have a fashion
blog, The Style Rules, and we would frequent one another’s blogs. The first
time we met in real life was at a Tucker sample sale in 2010. I loved D’s style: how
it was a mix of polished and pop with some fearless accessories and fancy shoes
thrown in. So when she started doing styling and wardrobe consultations back in 2009, I knew I had to enlist her help.
Fast forward a few years, and I’ve just graduated from
law school and am in dire need of a wardrobe revitalization. I used to work in fashion
PR, and going from that creative environment to the seriousness of law school
discombobulated my sense of style, to say the least.
I found myself shopping and
shopping but never taking the next step to wear most of my purchases. And when
I did, I did so with little effort and began wearing the same outfits for the
same occasions over and over: Tucker blouse, skinny jeans, 5 inch heel, repeat.
Worse, when I was in class (which was much of the week) I would stick to basic
tees and jeans for fear of looking like “the fashion-forward girl” in a class
full of academics.
I knew D would be able to help me navigate through my closet
and find new outfits waiting to be worn for both play and business alike. Since
I will be an attorney soon in either public interest
or family law, I needed D’s help to find outfits that could be serious and
modern, but with a hint of pop thrown in.
I was shocked at how D was able to take all of the things I
had already purchased and mix them in ways I had never thought of. My favorite
outfit of the day was my Theory blazer (which I had only ever worn paired with
its matching wide-leg slacks – boring!), a polka dot top, skinny black
pants and, for an added pop, a bright orange necklace and Miu Miu leopard print
heels.
I loved how mixing and matching unexpected pieces turned into
an outfit that could be worn from a lunch meeting to drinks with my girlfriends. The whole look made me feel so confident – and it didn’t look crazy at all,
given the mix of patterns and textures. D also gave me great casual options
that didn’t look too put together, but just put together enough to show I had
some style. The kind of style that reads as effortless – love that!
D was great at offering objective advice on what worked on my body. She told me what to focus on and what to stay away from, which made a huge difference and is something I had never really noticed before. D pointed out that I was buying sizes too big for my shape – something I had always done thinking it made me appear thinner. Also big and long lapels and jackets that hit at the thigh = BAD on my frame!
Jackets that hit closer to the hipbone = better, more proportional.
D also suggested adding some colored shoes to my collection as well as some polished flats instead of my go-to flip flops. Also more structured tops. Unbeknownst to me, I had been solely buying shoes of the black and brown variety. And I did not own ONE structured top. All I had in my closet were billowy Tucker blouses or loose tanks.
Included in my wardrobe consultation was a lookbook that D put
together for me with all the pieces she suggested I purchase to round out my
wardrobe. It also included inspirational pictures of my favorite stylish celebs (Lauren Conrad, Nicole Richie, Rachel Bilson) wear the pieces I need in my closet. It was like Christmas morning and I can’t wait to purchase some of those pieces
to go with my newly revamped wardrobe!
D was a pleasure to work with and be around – like a friend I’d known forever. I felt completely comfortable with her, even when discussing things like what looked best on my body and the negative feelings I had associated with attention. As D eloquently pointed out, “Not all attention is bad attention.”
Thanks D for getting me excited to put together beautiful outfits
as I begin my journey as an attorney in the months to come!
D was a pleasure to work with and be around – like a friend I’d known forever. I felt completely comfortable with her, even when discussing things like what looked best on my body and the negative feelings I had associated with attention. As D eloquently pointed out, “Not all attention is bad attention.”
Thanks D for getting me excited to put together beautiful outfits
as I begin my journey as an attorney in the months to come!
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How gorgeous is this honey child, right? Loved helping her identify the gaps in her amazing Tucker-filled wardrobe as she prepares for a big career shift. But particularly enjoyed giving her a boost of confidence to realize that standing out doesn't have to be a bad thing. Humbled by the opportunity to hand yet another lovely lady that bit of sartorial wisdom.
4 comments:
Kudos to both of you!
Cheers for those moments. Would really love to have your wardrobe. Simply chic. Got my eye on your blog now.
You never cease to amaze me. *smoochies
I love her! I found your blog through hers years ago and I was so disappointed when she had stopped blogging. But I'm so glad to see her pop up once more and it looks like you've done a great job pulling things together for her!
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