Monday, June 22, 2009

The Scene
Not well today. The medication that was controlling my reaction to Thursday's HORRIBLY invasive procedure ran out today.

Was in major discomfort by the evening. Hardly slept all night. Nervous if I don't get better soon we might have to cancel our trip to Hawaii. WAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAH!



The Outfit
Fashion District dress


The Accessories
Urban Outfitters sandals
Marc Jacobs bag


The Grade
A


The Commentary


Loving all dresses navy blue



























And shoes fringed lately.

















Wish I felt half as good as I looked today ;(

Sunday, June 21, 2009

The Scene
Mar5195 has been following this blog forever. There's always been something about her comments that made me take notice. Maybe it was her self deprecating wit. I'm a sucker for funny. But there was also a certain strength and intelligence and kindness that seeped through her words, revealing the kind of person she is, the kind of friend she is. She just sounded like someone who'd have your back through life's rough patches, someone who'd keep you laughing through the tears. It is still so funny to me how you can "get to know" someone through of all things a blog.





















Mari5195 completely won me over late last year after my mom got diagnosed with a brain tumor. She let me know my relationship with my mom reminded her so much of her relationship with her mom. She said we're lucky girls to have mothers we consider friends. She also told me she was running her first marathon and would like to put my mom's name on her jersey. I remember tears streaming down my face when I read her email. An utterly sweet gesture by a virtual stranger.


























I'm glad to say that after today, Mari5195 are strangers no more. Today she became my 9th client. YAYAYYAY! During her two hour wardrobe consultation, I confirmed she is one fun and funny chick.












I was thrilled to discover that she had several great pieces in her wardrobe. Unlike several of my past clients, she is not afraid of color, which makes my job alot easier. I helped her pull together old pieces in new ways and challenged her to think more creatively about her office and weekend wear.





















Although Mari5195 gets an A+ for her love of color, her sartorial weakness lies in determining flattering proportions for her petitte, curvalicious figure.










She has several pieces that overwhelm her frame completely - aging her and adding pounds. These dowdy dresses made me want to cry.























So did most of her skirts. Without fail, each skirt I had her try on hit her right between the knee and the ankle - a universally unflattering length if one isn't reed thin or 6 feet tall.














I forced her to dig around in the back of her closet and find a couple of skirts that hit her above the knee. I showed her how instantly she became taller and younger and thinner just by raising her hemline. Plus, what's the point of running marathons if you're not showing off the hard-earned gams?
















We plucked out skirts and coats and dresses that also needed to be taken up above the knee. Fact: Few people can truly buy clothes off the rack. If you are under 5''4' and not shopping in the pettite section, take it for granted you're going to have to tailor your clothes for the best fit possible. I know because I have a mother and grandmother who I was taller than by the age of 10. I watched them get really good at altering their own clothes.




They taught me how particularly important it is for petitte women to hem pants to just the right length. The length on the right is perfect - covers the heel and makes Mari5195's leg look instantly longer than the shorter length on the left.



















I also determined that halters are a HOT shape for Ms. Mar5195. Look at how they soften her shoulders, draw attention to her amazing decollatage and show off her tiny waist. YUM! Mari5195 told me she considers Jennifer Aniston one of her style icons. And I can definitely see that they share a clean classic approach to fashion.


But I pointed out that she has a different shape and very different coloring from Jennifer. In my mind, Salma Hayek is someone she should turn to for inspiration on fit and silohoutte. Can't wait to put together a look book that will help her better accentuate her femininity and her many assets.






After my appointment with Mari5195, it was time to go shopping for yesterday's new client, Yvette. I must admit my mom and I were a bit nervous about navigating the world of plus size fashion for a client. We come from a family filled with many a shapely lady. They've always bemoaned not being able to find enough fabulous and affordable fashion in their sizes.






But that was not our exprience today. At all.





















We found chic summer pieces at Macy's and Nordstrom and even Forever 21. Sassy and affordable options that will work well for Yvette's lifestyle and figure.

















I was particularly impressed with the selection at Lane Bryant. Haven't been in one in years. In my teens, I worked for the Limited Too and Lane Bryant was one of the family of stores where I got a discount. I remember looking for a present there for a family friend and being so disheartened by all the clowny prints and muumuu shapes. Thankfully, much has changed in the last decade.


















Can't wait to get Yvette into some amazing, look at me colors.
















But for the BET Awards next week, I had to focus on all black pieces. Snapped up a few for her to try on this week. Very excited to see how they fit and how she likes them.




















After a weekend of hard fashion work, my mom and I had a nice dinner. And even though I was the one techinically on the clock today, she was the one who ended the day with a massage!











The Outfit
Fashion District wrap sweater
Tiered, asymmetrical dress


The Accessories
Marc by Marc Jacobs clutch and heels
Me&Ro necklace
Forever 21 bangle
Fashion District bangle and ring


The Grade
A








The Commentary
Built the outfit around my pink toes.
Realized today for the first time how perfectly the shoes work with this dress.

Love love love this asymmetrical dress






This trend has been around for a couple of seasons and will continue well into next year.

















It was a big trend at the CFDA awards.



















On models.












And designers alike.






















These are my favorite recent asymmetrical looks.



Is it possible for Camille Belle to ever look bad? Ugh. Must be exhausting to be a little doll :)










But Anna Dello Russo, fashion director at large of Vogue Nippon, is my newest fashion idol.




























She without fail cuts a striking figure - head to toe impeccable.




















Love women who wear runway with such casual ease, with such graceful elan.











Nothing worse than a person who wears beautiful clothing like a chip on her shoulder.








Added the yellow sweater today for a little contrast.




Wish it had been a white blazer. Need one. Stat.






















Picked the clutch for a bit of evening glam for day.













































And to draw attention to the new bauble I picked up in downtown yesterday.




Mari5195 loved it on sight.



















It's the bracelet version of my Diorette inspired ring.



It comes in silver and gold. If you are interested, email me. Just $44.99!!!!











Also found some new Diorette rings. LOOK AT THAT BUTTERFLY!!!!




Bigger and blingy-er than mine but I am loving. JUST $34.99.













If butterfly sunglasses are more your thang, I found a supplier today who can do these Prada-like sunnies for just $15. Plan to create an online store where you can buy these trinkets. Soon soon soon, my pretties ;)

















































Saturday, June 20, 2009

NEW: My Super Sweet Reader Giveaway!

Chickdowntown is an online designer boutique that carries some of my favorite designers: DVF, Current/Elliot, Tibi, Elizabeth & James. And they carry designers new to me like Mystique and vintage inspired Australian label Mink Pink.
I nearly fainted when the generous folks over at Chickdowntown offered to do a giveaway for my super sweet readers!!!!! Chose this adorable Tarina Tarantino necklace that I hope you love as much as I do! Retails for $163.


Entering to win the cutest statement necklace ever is easy. Just make a comment on this post. For extra brownie points, follow me on Twitter. Trying to get to 200 followers this week.

I’ll do a drawing and announce the winner on Monday, July 6. Sorry, this contest only applies to US residents.

Good luck, my pretties! And thanks for reading. Kiss.

The Scene
This afternoon, I had an appointment at Father's Office in Culver City. Meet my newest styling client the lovely Yvette. Like me, she is an L.A. native with Central American roots and a mommy that's her biggest fan. Love love and more love. She's also driven and articulate and self-deprecating. She is the very definition of a mover and shaker.

Five years ago, Yvette left the corporate world and started her own PR and events company Simply Events LA. She handles fabulous events for a roster of clients ranging from non-profits to the Playboy Mansion. Today we met to focus on what she'll wear for her next big event: the BET Awards! She'll be working backstage during the show next Sunday wrangling the performers and turning it out at the glam after-parties in Hollywood. So.exciting!

Yvette reached out to me because she's found herself in a bit of fashion rut. Flip flops and jeans have become de rigeur. Partly because she works from home and partly because she's gone up a few sizes recently.

We'll be doing a full wardrobe consultation this summer but for now I just want to get her feeling fabulous and looking memorable. Think a style tune-up might be just what she needs to take her business to the next level. Especially in the image-conscious, uber competitive entertainment industry.



As a small business owner, Yvette has a limited budget to revamp her wardrobe. So after our meeting I headed to Recessionista heaven: the Fashion District.



She has to wear all black backstage at the awards show on Sunday so I figured we should start with some fabulous accessories that pop.






Yvette is more of a dainty jewelry girl but with her gorg coloring and frame and that face, she can carry bolder, look-at-me pieces. My goal is to have Beyonce asking Yvette where she got her necklace ;)


Picked up some fun stuff - none priced at more than $20. Hope she hearts them. Tomorrow I'll hunt down clothing options for her at Macy's, Nordstrom and Forever's new Faith 21 line.







In the afternoon, got my toes painted just in time to head down to the Jonathan Beach Club.


For the chichi birthday party of Mr. D's boss who just happens to be our favorite partner at The Firm.











Fabulous evening on the beach.



A little preview of Hawaii. The one week countdown has begun.
YAYAYAYA!










The Outfit
H&M dress
Vintage trench coat

The Accessories
Fashion District ring
Me&Ro necklace and earrings
Marc Jacobs bag
DKNY sandals

The Grade
B






The Commentary


No fashion emergency this morning. Knew exactly what I wanted to wear to meet Yvette. Been dying to don this purple dress since summer started.



Figured it would work perfectly with the trench if I tied things together with some turquoise jewelry.














Purple was hot on the Spring runways





























And has been even hotter on the red carpet lately.





















Have my eye on a couple of little beachy BCBG numbers right now




















Thought about changing for the party this evening since the dress is so sheer.



But figured if there was ever a group of people who need more sexy in their lives it's lawyers ;)
















Made the right call since the birthday boy ended up shirtless by the end of the night!!!!!!!!

















His wife died laughing when I thanked her for a lovely evening and for the pleasure of seeing her husband's boobs ;)


Friday, June 19, 2009

The Scene
In major discomfort all night from yesterday's procedure. Gotta love how a test to see if you're sick can MAKE you sick. F.

Was wide awake by 4 a.m. Raised a stink with the doctor by 8 am. Worked a full day then picked up medication at 5 pm. By dinner time I was starting to feel much better. Or maybe that was just Mr. Diabolina and the Mexican food.





Ended the night by renting the Gonzo documentary about Hunter Thompson. Did you know Thompson learned how to write by typing out the works of Fitzgerald? He wanted to get down the rhythm of Fitzgerald's prose. Gawd I love that. I love not being the only nerd enraptured by the the musical quality of great writing.










The Outfit
Fashion District dress

The Accessories
Louis Vuitton bag
London Sole blats
Forever 21 lucite bangle

The Grade
A




















The Commentary




Donned my Phillip Lim knock off today.




Effortlessly comfortable but fabulously chic.




















Am realizing that in the face of physical pain or emotinal hardship, I tend to revert to uber-feminine even vaguely juvenile looks.




Freud would have a field day with me.















So happy to see Phillip brought back the embroiddered overlay
for Resort 2010.





It's truly one of his most casually elegant collections yet.

















Love the minis







And the maxis











The high waisted gray shorts





And the cocoon like gray cardigan.















And the mixing of separates


Particularly digging the polka dots paired with the exquisitely draped neutral skirt.

















It's all vaguely reminiscent of the Vena Cava and Alex Wang CFDA designs currently at Gap. Have been dying to see them in person since I read Thumbelina's magical account last week.















Tried on both of these $89 dresses today. Sadly, I didn't love them.



The fit was less than ideal on an old gal with boobs and hips. Think for these dresses to work you have to have one or the other. You can't have both. I also found the khaki material quite stifling. Ughs. Nothing worse than a dress you can't move in.
















Much prefer Lim flowiness























Mixed with a dash of Lim bling bling.








Thursday, June 18, 2009

The Scene
I didn't mention that my doctor found the hypothyroidism last week by accident. I actually went in with different symptoms that have been bothering me on and off since April. My general practioner couldn't figure out what was wrong so he referred me to a specialist.

I didn't mention all this because today I was supposed to see the specialist. And I was supposed to get a test done that would tell me everything was all right. I figured there was no need to alarm anyone. Didn't even tell my mom.

Unfortunately, the test didn't go as planned today. The specialist found something - 3 abnormal lesions on an organ. So he is recommending a biopsy. It will be a four hour surgery. Outpatient. Just a week or so of recovery. Scheduling it for sometime in July.

I was fine as the doctor went through the odds with me. 80 percent chance it is not cancer. More likely, it could be the beginning of a chronic condition. One that 7 million other Americans live with every day. One without a clear cause.

There are several treatment options including medication, stress management and diet modifications. I can expect flare ups but sometimes the condition goes into complete remission. Don't feel like geting into more details now. Not until I know more.

I left the doctor's office fine. I felt relieved in a way again. Glad it hasn't all been in my head. Happy I know more. But by the time I got home and told people, I was messy and emotional.

I quickly realized I am not so much afraid of death. I am more afraid of how my life will change. I am afraid of how my relationships will change.

I am afraid of becoming a person with a chronic illness. I am afraid of how it will limit what I can do. I am afraid of not feeling like me anymore.

I am afraid.

Thankfully Peaches and Mr. Diabolina and my mom helped assuage the fear. They said all the right things, did all the right things and above all, they just loved me today. Amidst so much darkness, there is also great light and for that I am always thankful.

Juana, one of my oldest and dearest friends, said it best in an email - an email that simultaneously broke my heart and filled it:

Diabolina,

Life has dealt you a great deal of lemons in the past few months. I'm here to let you know that sugar and water is with you, too, always. Let's make some lemonade.

You've done the crying (and I've done a bit at my desk here at work) and that's a part of the process of dealing with things. But, don't wear yourself out with the crying and the negative.

Get up. Put on a cute outfit. Take a walk outside. Get the sun on your skin and put a smile on your face. No matter what, you will always have the strongest foundation of family and friends behind you. With that, you can get through anything.

Call me if you need anything at all. I will be there in a jiffy. I'll take the walk with you.

Lots of love,
Juana
"bring on the lemonade"


With friends like that, I am going to be fine. Right?




The Outfit

Forever 21 top and skirt

The Accessories
Chanel earrings and bag
Pucci scarf
Dior sunglasses
Marc by Marc Jacobs heels

The Grade
A









The Commentary




Built the outfit around this gorgeous new skirt. LOOK at that tulip shape.



Uber luxe for just $15.80. Love love love.














My signature colors were a must today



Wanted to feel beautiful and powerful as I stared down a super duper invasive procedure. We're talking torture chamber. Seriously. Traumatized for life.
















Was inspired by loads of black and white looks from the CFDA







































Loving how black and white can take you from the weekend






















To The Office















To evening












It will even work when I'm pedaling my memoirs someday ;)

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

The Scene

I neeeed it to be July 10 already.









Cannot wait for Sascha Cohen to take on the world of fashion.




In all its ripe for lampooning ridiculousness.












I am hoping I don't pee my (hot) pants.




And that everyone gets over themselves. It's called social satire, people, and it's not going away. Not as long as there's a first amendment.










I also hope if reincarnation is possible, I can come back as Isla and Sascha's baby.



I've always wanted in on a comedy dynasty.
And a British accent.










The Outfit
H&M dress

The Accessories
Marc by Marc Jacobs clutch
Isaac Mizrahi for Target heels
Me&Ro earrings
Fashion District necklace
Chanel sunglasses

The Grade
C









The Commentary



Built the outfit around the necklace today.





This dress always offers the perfect blank palette to use as a backdrop.











A couple of similar yellow color block dresses this week at the CFDA Awards.







Pretty sure neither cost $30ish dollars tho ;)











Meet the star of today's show: my newest Fashion District find.





Very Tom Binns on a dime, no?












The necklace specifically reminded me of the jumble of yum our First Lady wore on Oscar night.



Pretty sure this is the first time I've ever made a jewelry purchase with a First Lady in mind. I guess Hilary had her headbands, Jackie had her Gucci and Michelle has her statement necklaces.











If you are still not familiar with L.A.'s own Tom Binns, get familiar. His iconoclastic aesthetic is hot hot hot right now. After all he is being called the First Jeweler.












Love how he mixes punk




With luxury










So does Jessica Biel.











Heart any designer who waxes poetic on sustainability in fashion while drunk at the Hammer Museum. Clearly he is fun times.

Witness a recent tongue-in-cheek collection called "Get Real." It consisted of magazine clippings of necklaces, earrings, and rings, laminated in plastic, closed off with a safety pin, and retails for $125. Talk about Recessionista chic.











It was practically made for someone who swaps Manolos for Target on occasion.

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

The Scene


Headed to the LBC for work today. Another all-day conference. No MC Hammer this time but I did get to spend the evening with this gorgeous family! Gawd, Chowmein's babies were ON FIRE tonight.









Bana wouldn't stop clinking her cup with mine and saying "cheers" mischievously. It's like she KNEW her mommy and I were enjoying adult cocktails in our sippy cups and she wanted in on our girls' happy hour!

Not one to be outdone, Mr. Chicken Nugget at one point started assigning sizes to everyone in his family. He told me his 6 foot tall daddy is a large and his 4' 11'' mom is a medium. He deemed himself a small medium. And what about Bana, I asked him. He glowered at his younger sister with a mixture of contempt and fear and said, "She's a small. But she THINKS she's a large." I almost died.





After dinner, we headed to Baskin Robbins for $1 scoops and a pet store for peeping.


Back to back hits of kid crack.









Love these evenings with my girlfriends who are mothers. Love the glimpses into their evening routines with their baby dolls.








The giggling and the trampolines and the games of Tic Tac Toe and the sea horses

The brainwashed toddlers who - unprompted - burst into the USC Fight Song in the backseat and at the dinner table and on the potty.










Tonight Chowmein and I talked about work and health and life. We also reminisced about summers in college and bachelorette parties post college. Truth be told, it's hard for me to remember what life was like B.M. - before munchkins. Or maybe I just don't want to remember who we were before they were.









The Outfit
Marc by MJ tee
Express pants
Banana Republic coat

The Accessories
Forever 21 necklace
Marc Jacobs bag and shoes
Chanel sunglasses
Gucci scarf

The Grade
Pass





The Commentary


Not feeling creative today. Turned to the neutral separates I've been loving lately.




This outfit I first whipped up last year and it's since come to be a go-to look.












Felt professional and chic today.




Just what I needed.




















Had glittery nude looks dancing in my head from yesterday's CFDA Awards.




















Also can't stop thinking about the fabulous neutrals on Jak and Jil recently.












I HIGHLY encourage you to mix neutrals this summer.






















Simple way to look fresh but still vibe "office appropriate."

















Warning: neutrals are NOT the best choice for lapping up ice cream with baby piggies.


Light colored clothing is best reserved for happy hours with their boozehound mommies.
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