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How to Wear Red Pants

2012-01-10T22:52:00.000-08:00

The Scene

We spent our second Christmas in Las Vegas this year. The best concentration of world-class restaurants AND luxury stores that never close? What more does a fashionista pig need over the holidays.

Only two adorable and hilarious partners in crime.

Perfect place and perfect company to spend one of the best Christmases of my life.

The Outfit

H&M top

Ann Taylor pants

Ellie Tahari coat

The Accessories

Target booties

Forever 21 necklace and braclets

Louis Vuitton bag

The Grade

The Commentary

Finally broke down and joined the hep young kids this summer by getting me some colored denim. Been obsessed with colored bottoms (does that sound gross to you too?) ever since.

Been dying to find the perfect pair of red slacks for months. Had my eye on several pairs from the likes of Tibi and J Crew. All over $200. Eff that.

I got my J Brand-lookalike red jeans for less than $30 so I figured I could stay below $100 for pants. And lo and behold, Santa heard my wish. In Las Vegas, on Christmas Eve, I found this pair for 50% off at Ann Taylor. Loooooving the high-water look. Tres awkward chic.

Much like my new little booties. Like colored denim, I'd disdained these little fugly functional booties for what's felt like a year. But finally I came around a few weeks ago when I FINALLY got the so fugs-they-are-cute appeal. Even more appealing: just $25 at Tar-jay. Not even Isabel Marant can get me to pay $600 for ugly.

Added a little Vegas bling to the look with this necklace. LOVING it lately.

Let me tell you the whole look was STUPEFYING to most Vegas-goers. Probably because there was nothing sexy about it. Man repelling fashion at it's finest.

The Inspiration

My First Christian Louboutins

2012-01-01T22:27:00.000-08:00

This fall, my mom and I graced many a store in NYC with our Angeleno-ness.

Focused on the ones we don't have in LA: Topshop, Century 21, Uniqlo and Henri Bendel

But our favorite shopping spot in the city remains the shoe salon at Bergdorf's. Was made even bigger a month before our trip. Clearly someone heard we were coming.

My mom fell in love with many a beautifully sensible shoe there. But ultimately the glittery Louboutin below edged out the Prada pilgrim above.

Your first perfect pair of Louboutins = smug Mamalina smile.

So smug was my little mama that when we got to the hotel that night, she got in her jammies AND her Loubies.

Fast-forward to December, and my mom casually announced she'd like to get me my first pair of red soles for Christmas. She was thinking a classic nude peep toe. I was thinking, mmm-hmmm, anything you say, YAY!!!!

In the ensuing weeks, we did some serious and delicious reconnaissance at Neiman Marcus. Decided a patent would be a sound investment. A leg-lengthening nude. But a carmel-y brown-girl nude, not a pinkie white-girl nude.

Heel height was also critical. We didn't want it towering (I'm old and can't handle over five inches anymore). But my mom thought I should get a heel higher than her Marcia Balla kittens. To, you know, really flash that red sole ;)

So a few days before Christmas, these little Very Prive beauties arrived at my office.

After I called my mom to thank her, she texted me a picture of these Louboutins and asked me if I liked them better.

She thinks she's wildly hilarious.

I texted her this picture of the paw Loubies and said they were her X-mas present.

Trevor Live 2011: Little Black Dresses

2011-12-31T14:33:00.000-08:00

The Scene

Earlier this month, I attended Trevor Live, the premiere annual fundraising event for the Trevor Project in LA. It was my third. (Here are my 2009 and 2010 posts.)

But this year's event was my first one attending as a board member. Best.New.Accessory.EVER.

So this year, I was less about the OOC cocktails.

And more about my duties, primarily thanking supporters and volunteers.

And schmoozing with the donors at Sable Crow's table

After the dinner, I could finally relax and enjoy the AH-mazing show directed by Adam Shankman.

Our MC was the one, the only Amy Poehler.

Soooo many high-profile faces graced the stage this year---a real testament to how much the organization has grown in a few short years.

This American Idol kid was one of the evening's highlights with an awe-inspiring rendition of O Holy Night!

Best celebrity encounter of the night was with Christina Hendricks. Walked into the ladies room and there she was. I gushed, "Omygod! It's you!" Told her I adore Mad Men and thanked her so much for supporting. She was lovely lovely lovely!

Michelle was prettier than Zac if you can believe it.

Let's talk about Leann Rimes. So given all the tabloid chatter about her, I will admit I had my opinions about her. But, let me tell you, I am a converted, full-fledged fan of her talent. Her performance was one of the most beautiful I've heard in my life. What a voice!

The most touching moment of the night came when Gaga accepted the Trevor Hero Award from the family of Jamey Rodemeyer, the bullied New York teen who committed suicide this September. Gaga said the honor meant more to her than winning any Grammy.

And I have to say my increased involvement with the cause this year is one of my proudest achievements of 2011. Can't wait for what 2012 will bring Trevor.

The Outfit
Nanette Lepore dress (seen here before way back in 2009)

The Accessories
Chanel purse
Gucci jacket
Alexander McQueen heels

The Grade
Pass

The Commentary

Was feeling the pressure to look Board of Directors-y this year and opted for a tried and true LBD. THis dress invariably makes me feel polished and pretty. Knew I'd be working the room and this dress is the definition of comfortable. The forgiving retro shape doesn't require spanxing it up (which helps) and it's got pockets. Not a standout look but event-appropriate.

Was dying to wear color to stand out amongst all the boys in black but ultimately decided it'd be best to work with the pops of red via the lips and the bag.

Interestingly, my shoes were the accessories that got the most attention. Although Mr. D's new Louis Vuittons and Sable Crow's alligators were my faves of the night.

Speaking of shoes and pops of red, I did fall for these little Loubies that were part of the silent auction. They would have been mine if they'd been a 9 instead of an 8. Fie on my enormous feets.

But the most dreamy fashion auction item of the night was one that I helped coordinate with Mr. Brad Goreski's help. It was a NYC shopping extravaganza. The winner received airfare to the city, a stay at the Mercer, a priceless wardrobe consultation with Brad and a shopping spree at some of his favorite places: Barney's, Macy's, Kate Spade and Tommy Hilfiger.

It was the night's top live auction item bringing in $12,000!!! Was so proud. And it's only the beginning of my plan to bring more fashion brands, influencers and lovers into the Trevor fold.

What the Stars Wore

LBDs were the look of the night.

Always chic and elegant.

Loved Dianna's pops of red.

And Zoe's. Very Diabolina.

Alas, Miss Piggy was the star that probably bore the closest resemblance to me. Sigh.

Loved Mary J's belted and banged look

Christina kept it simple in separates.

As did Ricki in a turtleneck and leather skirt.

Julie had my favorite look of the night in skin tight leather. Perfect for the occasion.

Gaga minus the gloves would have been a close second. Adored the headpiece.

Fergie was one of the few stars doing her own thing in a bedazzled number.

Very ala my look in 2009---minus the feathers.

The standout of the night for me again tho was Leann Rimes. She was wearing a gorgeous flowy green number. Found out later it was designed by Dallas blogger-turned-designer Nini. AMAZING.

But the shoes were my favorite part of the look: McQueen.
Great minds...

Holiday JewelMint Giveaway

2011-12-21T17:34:00.000-08:00

The winner of my last JewelMint giveaway, The Peeper, sent me this picture today: the debut of her Silver Swan bracelet. She said it got complimented the minute she walked into her office. LOVE!!!!

The lovelies at BeachMint offered me another giveaway just in time to celebrate holiday promotions of JewelMint (and sister site StyleMint!) giftcards. Cute and easy last minute gift idea!

To enter to win a JewelMint piece, just leave a comment below along with your email before midnight on December 25. I'll email you and we can figure out what piece you want and is in stock.

As for the comment, this time I want you to share at least one style-related resolution you're planning for 2012. Mine is to feel more comfortable and less cha-cha wearing red---clothing, accessories and lipstick.

Mr. D hates a red lip so this should be F-U-n!

Giambattista Valli for Macy's

2011-12-20T13:36:00.000-08:00

The Scene

For Thanksgiving, I whisked my tallest best friend and my shortest one away for the weekend.

We spent three perfectly relaxing days at the absolutely goregeous Ojai Valley Inn and Spa.

Easily my best Turkey Day yet.

Endlessly thankful this holiday season for our family of three.

The Outfit
Giambattista Valli for Macy's dress

Tahari coat

The AccessoriesWolford tights
Chanel bag
Tory Burch booties

The Grade
B

The Commentary

This lewk on Emma Stone is easily one of my favorites of the year. Giambattista Valli. Known for very feminine designs: ruffles, bold colors and shapes, and loads of leopard. Valli is a cross between Lanvin and Valentino with a dash of Dolce thrown into the mix.

So I was thrilled when I heard the house was collaborating with Macy's for a diffusion line.

When I actually saw the designs, I was a little less enthused.

Me thinks the delicious volume of Valli designs is hard to translate when mass produced.

Or maybe it's just---sigh!---my hips. I bought and returned this delish skirt. It was one of the more luxe looking pieces. Works beautifully on a size 0 model but on my size 8 ass it looked like I was giving birth to a Rose Parade float.

Loved all the glorious leopard prints...at first glance. But on closer inspection, they didn't look quite so right. Leopard on not so fine fabrics is tough to nail.

Still, I nabbed this leopard shift dress online and kept it. Like the 60s vibe of the color blocking, dropped waist and short hemline. The leopards aren't ideal but they'll do for the price.

We can't all be Diane Kruger and rock the actual Valli dress from a few seasons ago (that's the designer himself with Diane!)

Ugh. Adore me the idea of luxe leopard on luxe leopard. One day, one day.

Ultimately the diffusion look worked perfectly for a chilly night of holiday pigging. Though I wish I had done more pops of red to be more festive. Def a red lip to pick up the accent color of the dress.

Next time red tassle earrings and lips---maybe for NYE ;)

The Giambattista Valli Inspiration

How To Wear the Pajama Trend

2011-12-19T12:05:00.000-08:00

The Scene

Double date with one of my dearest, most saintly friends from college.

And our devilish boys, who if possible, are more in love than we are. Adore!

The Food

Finally got to try R23, a hidden little sushi gem deep in downtown LA.

Great quality fish, amazing sake and cool laid back vibe. We will definitely be back!

The Drinks

Followed up dinner with cocktails at The Pattern Bar, where the drinks are named after fashion designers: The D Von Furstenberg, The Chanel, The Jacobs, The Dior, The Herrera, The Galliano and The McQueen!!!!!

Names made for me PLUS booze concoctions made for Mr. Diabolina EQUALS fave new bar!

The Outfit

Liquid Barneys New York pajama blouse

H&M leggings

The Accessories

Miu Miu maryjanes

Forever 21 bracelets
Chanel bag

The Grade

A+

The Commentary

I've been considering the pajama trend ever since THAT Dolce and Gabbana collection a few seasons ago. I love how the vibe is masculine yet sexy, languid yet luxurious, retro glam yet functionally modern.

But it hasn't been easy to find pj looks that fit both my body type and budget. In absolute LUST with a new line that's getting alot of editorial coverage called Piamita (pants pictured below.)

But I don't even know what stores carry it---sigh! So I was thrilled when I found a sweet little silky number at The Barneys New York Outlet over Thanksgiving.

Love the flattering fit! Newsflash: a belted pajama look is best if you've got even the slightest hint of boobs and hips. Don't want to look like a frumpy, female Hugh Hefner.

Decided to go fitted with the bottoms. And added the silky heels. Love how PURRfectly they pick up the navy and blush piping of the top.

A new go-to look is born.

The Inspiration

Sequin Zara Skirt: What to Wear to A Work Holiday Party

2011-12-17T22:33:00.000-08:00

The Scene

It's the most wonderful time of the year: holiday office party time ;)

Mr. Diabolina and I decided to start the night with a leisurely dinner at The Gorbals so at least we'd have a nice meal together before the obligatory tight-lipped wine-sipping with co-workers.

Started with the bacon wrapped matzo balls---sadly not as amaze as I expected.

And grilled squid with garlic and lemon---my favorite dish of the night.

Confit turkey leg and a lamb burger (not pictured)---both insanely good.

Roast carrots and fried kale---greasy good for you ;)

Then with full, Santa bellies, we made an appearance at my work party. Everyone talked about work. No one made ass.

Joy.

The Outfit
Banana Republic top
Zara sequin skirt

The Accessories
Dolce and Gabbana heels
Chanel bag
Bracelet from the Fashion District

The Grade
A

The Commentary

Built the outfit around this new sequin skirt. LOOK at the splatter effect of the different colored sequins!!!! Love love love it. Especially fond of the longer length---no hoochie coochie allowed for a work holiday party.

I work at a tech company i.e. there are NO fashionistas for miles. So I thought the skirt would be enough to blow minds and was going to simply pair it with a crew neck black sweater. But then I remembered: I dress for myself not other people. I like to stand out, not blend in. So dug out this old top that was hidden in the back of my closet. It must be nearly a decade old by now. Love its drape and material. Manages to make the deep v neck not so scandalous.

Decided to add a pop of red with the lips and my new favorite makeup staple: a cat eye.

And this little $10 bracelet that I nabbed in the fashion district. Very House of Harlow.

The cherry on top was my mom's borrowed Chanel bag.
Want to live in this outfit. Very J to the Lo.

It is festive but still professional. Just the right balance. Plan to reinvent it for Christmas in Vegas and maybe even New Year's...

The Inspiration

Prada Spring 2011 Stripes

2011-12-12T22:15:00.000-08:00

The Scene

During our fall trip to NYC, my mom and I met the baby girl I used to babysit when I was a teen and she was a tween. She is now bicoastal (a dream) so we caught up with her for brunch at The Dutch. Had been hearing about the SoHo spot from fashionistas and foodies alike so I knew it'd be perfect for a girlie pig/gab fest.

The Food

Started with TDF biscuits slathered with butter and honey.

Shared the two fried eggs, hominy grits, chorizo and salsa verde. Muy delicious. Not as greasy as it sounds.

And finally the Eggs Okonomiyaki, a Japanese egg pancake with pork belly and shrimp. Finger-like bonito flakes move and curl on top, beckoning you to get your grub on. Crazy creepy and craaaaaaazy tasty. Never eaten anything like it. Highly recommend if you are the adventurous type.

A+ brunch with A+ company.

The Outfit

Elizabeth and James top
Forever 21 skirt
Vintage trench

The Accessories
Rebecca Minkoff bag
Prada sunglasses
Abate for Payless heels
Forever 21 bracelets and earrings

The Grade
B+

The Commentary

Built the outfit around these sensible, stripey kitten heels.

Sadly after a few hours huffing around NYC even they weren't sensible enough. F to being an Angeleno without a car service. Had to change into super not fierce ballet flats. Dowdy-ied up the cool striped skirt and poppy top combo.

Bought the skirt because it cost less than 20 bucks and approximated the Prada Spring stripes that I'm still loving. Endless possibilities with this skirt. And love the thirty something appropriate length.

Love Spring 2011 so much that on my last day in NYC I couldn't resist these stripey Prada sunnies from the same season at Century 21. Not the most flattering on my huge face but I don't care.

I fear I'm two pairs deep into a bonafide Prada sunglasses collection (read: obsession.)

The Inspiration

Fall 2011: How to Wear Leopard

2011-11-24T09:02:00.000-08:00

I love me some leopard. Makes sense: I'm a Leo and a drag queen. Leopard bags, hats, coats, dresses, shoes---I've got 'em all and wear them year-round. But leopard feels especially right in the winter so I recently invested in some colder weather kitties.

First, this Old Navy zip up sweater.

Have wanted a leopard sweater for a long time but getting the right print (not gaudy) for the right price (not hundreds of dollars) can be challenging. This $30 one will do until I want to splurge on Dolce.

Second, this leopard scarf from H&M.

Am wearing it all the time lately. Reminds me of THAT delish Louis Vuitton leopard print a few years back. Love how it works with the stripes.

Third, I dug out these OOC tights that I bought exactly a decade ago and never wore. Got them for the first bachelorette party I ever threw (an EPIC night with a "Girls Gone Wild" theme).

Wore them under leggings, to feel fabulous, while we were in Indiana but I plan to bust them out with a LBD and booties soon...just you wait

And finally, here's a peek at what I'm wearing tonight to celebrate Thanksgiving with my mom and Mr. Diabolina. Rawr!

Hope you have a relaxing, piggie, fabulous holiday weekend!
xo

The Inspiration

Where to Eat in NYC: Ippudo Ramen

2011-11-23T12:33:00.000-08:00

The Scene

A few years ago while visiting three of my fave piggies on the planet, I was introduced to Ippudo NY, a Japanese Ramen Noodle restaurant.

It was love at first slurp.

So when I was back in the city last month for work, I beelined there. Thankfully, I was flying solo and was able to sit at the communal table (otherwise the wait would have been 2 hours!)

The Food

I got the $15 Shiromaru Hakata Classic, the original "Tonkotsu" noodle soup topped with pork loin chashu, kikurage, menma, memma, red pickled ginger, sesame, and scallions. Nom-nom-nomy! Go to there on a cold night and get it.

And, because I'm a hog, I also got the Hirata Buns, steamed buns filled with your choice of pork or chicken, served with Ippudo original spicy buns sauce. Heaven.

HIGHLY recommend, especially for a solo business dinner!

The Outfit

H&M white button down and leggings

Forever 21 horse print jacket

The Accessories

H&M belt

Zara heels

Forever 21 spiked bracelet (not pictured)

Louis Vuitton Neverfull tote (not pictured)

The Grade

The Commentary

For months, I've been kinda obsessed with button downs and collars. Been dying to do a shirt all buttoned up with a necklace over the collar but been too chicken shit.

Partly because it's a look that works best on the smaller chested and slimmer waisted.

Partly because the look is Man Repeller Central and will weird mere mortals out. Sigh.

But mostly I haven't gone there because to do it right, the shirt should look crisp, and I've never been keen on the ole ironing clothes thing. So I'm easying in with this oversized, perpetually crumpled button down I got for pennies at H&M. If you're not sure you're going to be able to pull off a trend, don't invest alot. That's why I got this little horse print tunic for $22 at Forever 21.

Instead of all THAT horse print stuff a decade ago at Chloe that cost more than my mortgage payment back then.

These comfortable but stylish Zara shoes were also a great cheapie purchase that are going to be my bffs whenever I travel.

Not one of my best looks but NYC scrambles my brains and you gotta give an old girl some props for trying.

The Inspiration

p.s. One of the top things I'm coveting for Christmas is this Man Repeller necklace for Dannijo

Love me some Leandra.

Though I really appreciated this VERY well-written blog post by Kelly Oxford about MP being in the 1% and blogging for the 99%. Goes back to some of the things I was saying in this blog post about money, blogging and perception a few weeks ago. Or rather trying to say ;)

My Missoni Date at Neiman Marcus

2011-11-21T23:59:00.000-08:00

The Scene

Jean Bean gave me this little pup a few years ago. He's a Missoni---an adorbs talisman she got in a gift bag during one of her trips to Milan Fashion Week. His perch in my messy closet changes but I always know where he is, watching me, reminding me that my best college girl friend is fabulous...and hearts me.

Last month, Jean Bean cemented her fabulosity and her undying love for me (or is it my undying love for her) by offering me a plum assignment: interviewing Vittorio and Octavio Jr. Missoni for NM Daily. OMG!

I love how she asks me, "Are you free?" Um, for the Missoni family...at Neiman Marcus...I'll make the time.

Vittorio, son of the Missoni founders, and his deliciously tall, soft-spoken son were in town to celebrate the family's Walk of Style honor, down the street from NM on Rodeo Drive. Fittingly, it was the first time a family had received the honor.

Before the ceremony, the two men, who both work for the family business in marketing and production, held an intimate fashion show for a few lucky Neiman's customers in the Beverly Hills store.
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While we drooled over the amazing clothes, they shared amazing stories about the beginning of the family business, how the zigzag was born and how Italian women are very similar to Californian ones.

They even whisked out the most recent flamenco-inspired runway looks, revealing that Neiman's would have pieces available months before everyone else. Let me tell you, this makes rich ladies very excited.

What also struck me about the whole experience was how lovely and genuine, Vittorio and Octavio were---to me, to the sales associates, to the photographer, to the customers, to the waiters. I've never meet fashion people that were more unassuming and gracious. Made me love their brand even more than I already do.

And that's pretty hard to do since I already love all this glorious Italian yarn. The colors! The zigzags! My kingdom for a closet full of colorful zigzag yarn!

Here are some of my picks for best dressed fellow Missoni lovers at the event.

LIVE FOR HER DRESS---my fave at the event!

Also looooved a momma who indoctrinates her daughter early about the finer things club.

Beautiful, beautiful experience---am forever grateful to Beans for the opportunity!

The Outfit
3.1 Phillip Lim dress
Marc by Marc Jacobs coat

The Accessories
Prada sunglasses
Chanel bag
Missoni scarf
Alexander McQueen heels
Cheapie jewelry

The Grade
Pass

The Commentary

Woe is me I don't own a single Missoni piece...other than my puppy and this scarf. So I built my outfit around the latter.

Used the palette of resort 2011, then plucked out the busiest pattern in my closet to build the black and white ensemb.

Verdict? Too ho hum. I should have gone for color. Missoni is all about color. F to me for being safe not fab.

The saving grace of the lewk: my iPhone cover. It's Missoni for Tar-jay, but Vittorio and Octavio both lit up when I flashed it. As I used my phone to start recording our interview, they looked at it closely, smiling at each other. Later, Vittorio shared:

"The collaboration with Target was an incredible experience. We had the opportunity to make a real total look---from your phone cover to the iPad cover to the little dress to the little coffee cup to the children's wear. All giving the Missoni look...in an easy way but keeping the design and the quality always very special. And not being cheap. It was not cheap."

I asked if the hunger for the products by Americans surprised the family. Without hesitating, Vittorio said, "Si, si. Yes. The passion...and seeing how many fans, it was incredible for the family."

(Credit: Patrick McMullen)

Later, as Vittorio and Octavio walked me through the resort collection, they mentioned how popular their beach and lounge wear has become. I told them that my best friend Jean and I dream of living in their caftans when we're 60+...and need to cover it all up a bit. They laughed and Vittorio even said, "Thank you." I mean who are these people???

A lovely, lovely family who has created a brand that the world loves because their love of family and craftsmanship is clear.

(Credit:Patrick McMullen)

p.s. I finally got these Missoni for Target goodies in the mail today. Would have been PURRfect with my black and white oufit for the NM event. Would have kept my busted bangs from ruining the picture above too. Sigh.

Read my full interview with the Missoni men on NM Daily!

JewelMint Giveaway

2011-11-16T23:44:00.000-08:00

Kate Bosworth is one of my all time fave style stars. This recent Proenza Schouler look is my version of FEROSH perfection. It strikes a unique balance of chic and edgy.

Kate has an enviable way of working the uptown princess vibe

With the same ease as she rocks downtown hipster style

But it's her ability to accessorize that I find the most inspring.

That's why I was THRILLED when I was gifted with a little delicious treat from JewelMint, Kate's genius jewelry club that she started with her friend and stylist Cher Coulter. All the pieces are priced right at $29.99 each and are designed with a variety of "style personalities" in mind.

Love how the bronze zipper works with some gold spikes and Peridot Chanel nails.

Wore it every day last weekend during our trip to Illinois, where this LA girl FINALLY mastered the art of layering for cold weather. Only took me 34 years. Not all of us come out of the womb like Kate ;)

We were in Illinois for this guy: Mr. Saint, one of Mr. Diabolina's BFFs from high school (and one of the few people that can make Mr. D look short.)

Mr. Saint is a bit of a gambling devil so my bracelet and I hit the casinos with him...

And later in the weekend, we witnessed Mr.Saint double down on the best bet he's ever made. LOVE!

To celebrate the happy newlyweds, I'm hosting a JewelMint giveaway. To enter, leave a comment below before next Wednesday at 5 pm PST and you'll be entered to win my second favorite bracelet from Kate and Cher's site, the Golden Goose bracelet:

In your comment, let me know what style question you have for Kate Bosworth and she'll (eeeeks!!) answer them by video for all of us. I die.

Good Luck!

Where to Brunch in New York City: Locanda Verde

2011-11-08T00:16:00.000-08:00

Locanda Verde came well recommended from various pigs that I trust my belly and my momma's belly with implicitly.

We started with the Sheep’s Milk Ricotta with truffle honey and burnt orange toast. Even better than you could possibly imagine. Just the perfect mix of sweet and savory.

Un then I snarfed the Zucchini Frittata with roasted tomato, goat cheese and basil. Best of my life. Hands down.

And my mom got the Hazelnut-Crusted French Toast with sicilian citrus salad. Heavenly sinful.

Locanda Verde = two VERY happy stuffed maranas.

Attempted to walk off the pig with a stroll from Greenwich to the Highline

And then to the FIT Musuem for the Daphne Guinness exhibit

Stunning slice of the McQueen exhibit at the Met. My mom and I were blown away

Here's the review I wrote for the Neiman Marcus blog. One of my better pieces of "fashion"writing me thinks.

And one of the loveliest days I've ever spent in NYC. Food, fashion and the company make all the difference.

The Outfit
Forever 21 jeans
Target printed top
Vintage trench

The Accessories
Louis Vuitton purse
H&M hat
Century 21 booties
Canal Street necklace

The Grade
B

The Commentary

I seriously want to LIVE in this hat. Love how glam it looks when my hair is TOE UP.

Actually built the outfit around the shoes. These gloriously functional sherling lined wedge booties. Would never have bought them in LA (too Alexa Chung!) but snapped right up in NYC. $60 at Century 21. Perfect for the 2.5 mile trek through Manhattan today.

So were my mom's Bruno Magli wedges. Also purchased in NYC. At Century 21 a few trips ago. Like momma, like daughter.

The Inspiration

Fall 2011: How to Wear a Cape

2011-11-05T16:53:00.000-07:00

The Scene

One of the reasons I LOVE traveling with my mom is that she's always up for a fancy vagina fest.

And that's exactly what you get at afternoon tea at the St. Regis in NYC. It is girly twirly fantastical.

Highly recommend the HEAVENLY lady-like sandwiches and don't get me started about the scones.

Ugh and this fancy version of a Reese's peanut buttercup---sorry for the blurring, I think I was shaking with joy.

A new NYC tradition is born for this piglet and her mama piggy!

The Outfit

Zara tunic

H&M striped sweater cape

Amercian Apparel liquid leggings

The Accessories

H&M floppy hat, leopard scarf and flats

Louis Vuitton tote

Michele watch

Forever 21 bracelet

The Grade

A for Afternoon Tea

The Commentary

I've never been prouder of my packing skillz than I was during this trip to NYC. Managed to bring a carry-on full of pieces---colors, prints, accessories---that mixed and matched so easily, they were practically idiot proof. They worked equally well for my professional duties as well as my off time with my mommy. They also managed to make me feel like a local and yet, very me.

A little relaxed Rachel glam from LA

Mixed with the Olivia socialite in the city chic.

The big floppy hat that I got in NYC while I was there added the perfect dash of Lanvin on a dime.

The only downside of this particular outfit: capes can be a little awkward if you're not wearing the right purse. A clutch or top handle bag that you can wear on your wrist work better than a shoulder bag. Otherwise you end up walking around all kinds of schloppy or with your wrist en fuego from the weight of your huge bag. Live and learn.

The Inspiration

Halloween 2011: Anna Wintour Costume

2011-11-01T00:05:00.000-07:00

The Scene

This Halloween, Sable Crow outdid himself. He not only made our English major nerds dreams come true with this flawless Bill Shakespeare lewk, he actually MADE the doublet himself. So talented. Also LOVE him for the Robert Pattison cutout in the background!

He also came up with the most genuis Halloween party theme: come as the person you'd most want to have dinner with.

For Mr. Diabolina, that meant dusting off his tried and true Howard Stern wig and sunglasses/nose concoction. Never gets old.

For Sable Crow's colleague that was Princess Di.

His manfriend: a scantily clad King Tut.

Our other friends rounded out the dinner party with The Pope, Andy Warhol, and Barack Obama (not pictured.)

And for me: the one, the only, the devil in Prada: Anna Wintour!!!

After a few rounds of drinks, the wigs came off and the deliciously intelligent conversation flowed. We all shared what questions we'd have for each character and that spun us off into discussions on politcs, art, religion, media, literature, reality TV, publishing as well as the evolution of how both homosexuals and women have been perceived by society. Think it was the most adult Halloween of my life.

Leave it to Sable Crow.

The Costume

Kay Unger little black dress
Banana Republic nubby coat
Valentino heels
Prada sunglasses
My mom's fur collar and Henri Bendel necklace
New pitch fork and wig
Marked up Vogue Magazine

The Commentary
I've been crazy swamped at work and life so I needed an EASY costume. Narrowed it down to Coco Chanel and Anna Wintour. Knew I had the basics for both costumes in my closet already. The wig would be the only purchase necessary. Ended up settling on Anna Wintour because I figured her severe straight bob would be easier to find than Coco's finger curl '20s mop. Lucked out with this $29 beauty at a wig shop on Wilshire.

The pitchfork was a last minute stroke of genius. As was the marked up Vogue magazine. Included post it notes that said "No! No! No!!!!" "Grace, you cunt!" and "Perfect...for whores! F!!"

William would be proud!

My Favorite Friend Costumes

Jean Bean as Margot Tenenbaum. A+. My bff as my fantasy actress bff gives me BIG lady wood.

Silver Haired Fox and Mr. Architect as "certified professional organizers specializing in compulsive hoarding." These men are my personal heaven.

Styleminded as the prettiest Black Swan in San Francisco. Love her. Miss her.

My Favorite Famous Costumes

Lea as the white swan. Perfect.

Paris as Shera in similar headgear. Inspired.

Nicole Richie as a pretty J Lo circa the Bennifer days. I did the same costume back then. Except I wore a white track suit and veil with my big pink diamond engagement ring. Mr. Diabolina dressed as Ben with a Boston RedSox ball cap and douche facial hair. Don't think we got as much props as we deserved.

Most frightening award: Heidi Klum. Bitch brings it EVERY YEAR! Look at the shoe detail!

Most unrecognizable: Debra Messing. AAAAADORE!

And Michael Kors!!!

Prettiest Disney princess: Gwen Stefani

Best Today Show costumes ever: The Royal Wedding reanactment!

But most timely costume award goes to: Kelly and Nick as the newlywed divorcees Kim and Kris

From the looks of Kim's Poison Ivy costume, home skillet already appears to be on the hunt for husband number three.

Hope you had a Happy Halloween!

My Costume Inspiration

Where to Eat in New York: Eataly

2011-10-21T17:46:00.000-07:00

The Scene

My goal whenever I'm in NYC is to have experiences I can't have in LA. That means Topshop for shopping, the Met for nerding, Central Park for strolling, and any number of only-in-New York-restaurants for noshing.

Top of my list for this trip for pigging: Eataly, Mario Batalli's shrine to all things Italian. Eataly is this massive food emporium that takes up an entire city block. In addition to selling a variety of products that are only available in Europe, it has eating stations and restaurants peppered throughout the space. It reminds me of one of my favorite places on earth: the marketplace at the Gallaries Lafayette in Paris. I don't know why Americans can't grasp the concept of gourmet food courts.

It's been a good 10 years since my mom and I were in Europe together so Eataly was a dream for her. Her eyes and mouth looked like this most of the night. Pretty adorbs ;)

My mom loves food and is an excellent cook in large part because of her Italian grandmother. She practically skipped through the aisles at Eataly, peering at all the products and regailing me with stories of her childhood. Love that she loved it so much.

The Food

We snagged the first table we could find at one of the little food stations and had a light but delicious meal.

Broccoli pesto bruschetta with ricotta cheese and pine nuts---insanely good.

Gnocchi in a TDF mushroom sauce. First time I had gnocchi that was cheese based not potato based. Lighter and TASTY.

And no dinner with this little sugar fiend would be complete without dessert...a few of them...with hot chocolate.

A+ of a only-in-NYC culinary experience. But rumor has it Eataly is heading west to West Hollywood!

The Outfit

Forever 21 jeans

St. John blazer

Old Navy sweater

The Accessories

Louis Vuitton bag

Valentino scarf

Tory Burch flats

Forever 21 earrings

Michele watch

Me&Ro neckalce

The Grade

The Commentary

Got THE best weather in NYC. Warm but not humid. Felt like LA.

This outfit was just the thing not only for the weather but for the first day of transitioning from work into fun in they city: felt professional but still on trend. Built it around the red pants. Am OBSESSED with them and frankly all things red lately. The nautical sweater I nabbed at Old Navy last month because I was surprised at how luxe it looked for $30. The gold button blazer, polka dot scarf on the LV bag and Reva flats created a pretty preppy look.

Felt straight out of the 80s and Connecticut. Only in NYC does that feel like a good look for me.

The Inspiration

$300 Orient Watch Giveaway

2011-10-18T22:12:00.000-07:00

In the last few years, I haven't been much of a watch person. But that all changed recently when I "came into" a snazzy black ceramic one. Am suddenly as obsessed as I was with my Swatch Pop Watch when I was 10.

My mom aka THE BITER is too. When we were in NYC,OF COURSE, she ran out and got a similar one. F that little cutie.

Now it's your turn to be a big ole copy cat like my momma. Thanks to Orient Watch and their Sapphire Crystal collection, one lucky winner will win a watch priced at up to $300. Of all their watches for women, these are two of my favorites.

To be entered, just leave a comment below with your name and email address before next Monday the 24th at 5 pm PT. Good luck!

EXTENDING THE DEADLINE UNTIL FRIDAY AT 5 PM!

On My Promotion, New Bag and Blogging

2011-10-18T00:55:00.000-07:00

Gawd, I've missed bloggy blogging. The last few weeks have been bananas. Mostly consumed with first preparing for and then surviving and finally recovering from 10 days in NYC for work. And somewhere along the way, when I wasn't quite expecting it...I happened to snag a promotion at work. Woop woop.

Ended up being PURRfect timing. Meant I could do a little celebratory shopping during my Big Apple trip. Work hard, shop hard, right? Meet one of the delish products of my celebration at Bendel's: Rebecca Minkoff's bow crossbody bag. I luvre her mucho. Still hearting all things crossbody. Think the look is young and hep and forces me not to schlep so much shit around. Makes me think about what I need more carefully.

Which brings me to an interesting/awkward/important subject that I feel like addressing so indulge me, por favor. A few weeks ago at a lovely dinner with new blogger friends, we discussed how blogging has become big business with many of the well-known fashion bloggers getting agents. During that dinner, I was also made aware of bloggers sharing stories about going into debt to keep up appearances on their blogs!!

Both stories didn't sit well with me. In fact, they've been making me feel a little weird about blogging. I mean, I get it, blogging IS weird. It's this weird exhibitionist thing to do that's very "HEY LOOK AT MY LIFE." And, yes, there's a natural fit for brands to position products thrown in the mix. So I get where the pressure and the perception and the commerce and the marketing all converge for the perfect pretty profitable storm.

One real issue for me is that blogging feels like it's shifting from a place of self expression and authenticity to a place that's focused on pushing an agenda or keeping up with the Joneses. Makes me sad that plaforms that can be so empowering for real women are morphing into just another commodity...just another place to inflict glossy veneers of fakeness on each other that create separation not connection. Or even worse: maybe blogs are influencing a new generation of women to think that having things is more important than having things to say. God, I hope not.

That's why I just wanted to say that blogging for me remains about having a creative outlet, about creating a place where I found my voice again...as a storyteller and yes, fashion lover. In blogging as in life, the goal for me has always been to share and learn. I want to inspire and be inspiring. Not only with how I dress but by how I go about being a smart, funny, driven, crazy and imperfect woman on the planet.

And I suddenly feel the need to be more explicit on a topic that not enough women talk about openly: fiscal responsibility. I think it's important, if you are reading my blog, to know that I work hard for what I have. I have had a job since I was 14 years old. I have also had a mortgage and a 401K since I was 23. I have had a Mr. Diabolina for quite a while too. And while he is a BFD professionally and will spoil me on birthdays and holidays, the majority of things I feature on this blog, were bought for me, by me, in cash money, honey. No credit card debt or daddy of any kind required.

The life that I blog is the culmination of 18 years of hard work in school and a decade of busting my ass professionally. Plus, there's a healthy dose of luck thrown in there too. I am lucky to have been born to a woman who is extremely smart about managing AND enjoying her money...and who taught me to be the same way. Lucky to have found a partner and a core circle of friends that I have known for more than a decade, who are ambitious and make me want to do more, be more.

And, say what you will about this point, but I feel lucky to have been born in this country. Despite the shenanigans in DC and on Wall Street and our culture of consumption, this is still one of the best places on earth to be a woman with a plan. Period.

Often, while I blog, I marvel at the opportunities I have and think about my cousins in Guatemala. They are so educated and so hard working and yet they struggle so fundamentally to get ahead. They live in a country that just doesn't afford them the opportunities we have here. That the luck of the draw can determine the trajectory of one's potential seems so crazy unfair to me but I am crazy grateful for the hand I drew and I try to give back.

So that's a whole lotta rambling about the perception and realities behind blogging. I don't know that any of this matters to you. But it matters to me that you know I think about it, the responsibility of all of it, not just the pretty pictures ;)

The Inspiration

Target for Missoni: Blogger Dinner at Fig and Olive

2011-10-02T19:40:00.000-07:00

The Scene

During FNO this year, I finally met one half of East of Highland. Haven't developed a girl crush that quickly in a while. She is as funny and smart as she is beautiful and lovely. Hearts.

Same deal with another pretty kitty twentysomething blogger she's friendly with named Pursuit of Shoes. Finally made a dinner date to meet her IRL last week. Can't believe we didn't do it sooner. I mean there aren't that many blogging Latina Trojans with shoe obsessions out there. Loving her ambitious and delicious face.

The other half of East of Highland rounded out our brunnette blogger coven. Adore her TOO. She's a friend of one of my favorite friends and just good people. What a foursome---my poor lady boner! We gabbed for hours: about our full time jobs and our part time blogging, about our boys and the bloggers we love to hate and of course, about fashion. We had a truly wonderful first date. Hope it's the first of many.

The Food

We met at the gorgeous newish Fig and Olive in WeHo...the night after President Obama was there!!! Swear we had the resy before him. You know how brunette covens do ;)

Started with the olive oil tasting

Our fave:

BEEF CARPACCIO $14

Filet mignon, 18 year old balsamic vinegar

baby arugula, parmesan – Truffle Olive Oil

MEDITERRANEAN CHICKEN SAMOSA $13

Chicken, cilantro, Greek yogurt, bell pepper

scallion – Harissa Olive Oil

Also had a few plates that we sucked down too quickly to photo

SEA SCALLOPS & TRUFFLE ARTICHOKE TAPENADE $16

Seared sea scallops, truffle artichoke, arugula

pine nuts with aged balsamic - White Truffle Olive Oil

SALMON CEVICHE
Orange, Grapefruit, Lemon, Cilantro

CHOCOLATE POT DE CRÈME
Crunchy Praline Financiers & Vanilla Cream

WARM CARAMELIZED APPLE TART

Crisp Puff Pastry with Caramelized Apples, Vanilla Ice Cream

A+ of a meal. But really the beautiful company made it.

The Outfit
Missoni for Target top
Ann Taylor leather skirt

The Accessories
Louis Vuitton earrings
Marc by Marc Jacobs clutch
Valentino heels
Fashion District necklace

The Grade
B+

The Commentary

Three words: Missoni for Target.

Three more words: WHAT A FIASCO.

The minute I saw THAT spread in Vogue, I started preparing mentally and financially.

I wanted every accessory, home item, article of clothing I saw. Even the super garish stuff. I mean it all cost less than a regularly priced Missoni scarf.

But, ugh, so did every other fashionista who can't afford oodles of regularly priced Missoni. The pop up shop in NYC sold out in just a few hours.

And the next day the demand for the designer line crashed the Target site for over 24 hours.

I showed up at the Target near my office, early but not early enough. It was cleaned out. Actually, women were hoarding carts full of zigzag. I had to make a decision: Was I going to be THAT lame lingerer, waiting to pounce on cast offs...at Target...in Burbank.

I am no lame lingerer and decided to take my chances with the website. Miraculously I found a few windows of up time and snagged whatever I could. Among the first to arrive is this little gilded goodie. Loving the fit and the quality. Timeless. Added the necklace to funk up the classic feel of the top and the prim length of my leather skirt (another purchase from my early 20s.)

Felt like an older, rounder Margharita cousin...on a dime.

Paired the top with the Valentinos for our blogger dinner

Think they fit right in with the young hot chickadees.

The Inspiration

Prada Rococo Sunglasses & Fendi Inspired Zara heels

2011-09-28T10:36:00.000-07:00

The Outfit

Et Vous blouse

Ann Taylor leather skirt

The Accessories
Prada Rococo sunglasses
L.A.M.B. clutch
Zara heels
Michele watch
Forever 21 bracelets
Nasty Gal cross necklace

The Grade
A

The Commentary

Built the yummy outfit around these sensibly adorbs shoes. Bought them this summer because they reminded me of Fendi Spring 2011...fo' just fotty bucks. Wore them to death huffing around in Montreal and Quebec. A substantial kitten heel like this is ideal on vacation when you are a lady of a certain age.

The top was thrifted a few years ago and still adore. The leather skirt I bought when I was 22---one of my all time best purchases. Loving how it works with the LAMBy clutch

And it kinda goes without saying but: these Prada Rococo sunglasses are EVERYTHING!!!!

The Inspiration

What to Wear to Work: Mixed Prints

2011-09-26T22:17:00.000-07:00

The Outfit
Vintage top
Forever 21 skirt

The Accessories
Chanel earrings and bag
Michele watch and random arm party
Dolce Vita sandals

The Grade
B+

The Commentary

A-fucking-dore the brushstroke print of this skirt. Reminds me a designer print from a few years back. Haven't worn it much because the flared, pleated shape isn't the best on my hippy hips. I tend to not pay as close attention to fit when the price tag is under $20 and the print is this delish. I'm a problem that way.

But I was feeling delusional and hip-less the other day so I put it on. Haven't gotten so many compliments in a while. Apparently a great print outweighs a not-so-great fit for everyone.

In a moment of inspired print mixing, I paired the skirt with a kind of animal print. Loved the unusual and unique effect. Added the neutral wedges and the Chanel bag to tone things down and simultaneously class things up. And voila: girly, flirty, hippy, fashiony fun.

The Inspiration

My Life in iPhone Photos

2011-09-24T00:23:00.000-07:00

Crazy week. Had a business trip to Boston...at exactly the same time Mr. Diabolina was there for business. Love that narc.

And loves me a lobstah roll

Also love that the weather is starting to turn. Obsessed with these new sweaters I picked up at OLD NAVY!! Kind luxe looking right???

Like the 'spensive-looking gold jewelry I recently nabbed at Forever 21.

AND OMFG the first of my Missoni for Target haul has arrived. Loving the quality and fit.

But most of all, right this very second, I'm loving the new post I wrote for the Neiman Marcus blog on the amaze Beauty Culture exhibit here in LA.

Just a little peek at what's been going on with me. Expect more posts next week cuz I miss my bloggy blog. Hope you do too. Happy weekend!

Peter Som Spring 2012

2011-09-15T23:45:00.000-07:00

The Scene

This past Sunday, I spent a leisurely day with my mama that included a stop at The Annenberg Space for Photography for the Beauty Culture exhibit. Thought provoking yet titilating. Highly recommend.

In the evening, Mr. Diabolina and I watched Contagion. Love any movie that revolves around Gwynnie. Especially one produced by a fellow Trevor Project board member!!!

Nearly pooped when I saw Ricky in Goop. Officially one degree of separation from my white girl fave. I die!

The Outfit

Forever 21 tank

Generra skirt

The Accessories

Vintage quilted bag

Marc Jacobs sunglasses

Fashion District necklace

Dolce Vita sandals
Forever 21 arm party

The Grade

A+

The Commentary

Favorite outfit of the summer. Was inspired by my putty-colored manicure.

Chose the adorable skirt---which I got resale for $8--- first. Decided against safe and added the top for a deelish pixed print effect.

Then came the shoes. Also a resale find. $20. Plan to pack them whenever I travel. Super comfortable.

The final touch: a necklace I've had forever but rarely dusted off. Absolutely perfect with the print of the skirt.

The Inspiration

Peter Som Spring 2012 was definitely floating around in my head as I pulled the outfit together.

The clean lines, bold colors and floral prints were among my favorite at NYFW

These two looks with the leather skirt and boxy top are TFDF!

And I want to live in these two maxis.

A+ for the exquisite collection that inspired an A+ outfit.

NYFW: Outfit Inspiration

2011-09-13T18:25:00.000-07:00

I was in quite a fashion frump of a rut this summer. I blame weight gain. And too much work. Also a closet that is starting to look more Hoarders than The Coveteur. Sigh.

But things are looking up. Suddenly feeling very sartorially inspired. Think I have the parade of peacocks at NYFW to thank.

Here are some of the simple and chic outfit inspirations I'll be channeling as we transition into fall. All relatively easy for us mere mortals to emulate. Hope you'll join me.

Fashion Night Out Los Angeles 2011: Rodeo Drive

2011-09-12T22:08:00.000-07:00

The Scene

I was one of the fifteen thousand fashion lovers who spent

Fashion Night Out this year on Rodeo Drive. Very exclusive party ;)

Easy to understand why it was such a draw. All the most swoon-worthy designer stores on the planet...

PLUS, a totally unpretentious, everyone's welcome carnival of an atmosphere?

Well, it makes for the most surreal juxtaposition EVER. I mean, there were people getting their hair did...on the street...in front of YSL. WHAT???

I decided there was only one pretty kitty who could appreciate the logo-ed ridiculousness of it all with me.

Plus I knew my tiny momma would approve of my not so tiny desire for food truck noming

After all, she's the one who created this hungry hungry hippo

In fact, SHE'S the piglet who demanded we START the night at Sprinkles. She's my hero!

She was also the one getting her crabcake on at a rooftop part-ay wiith my fave friend of a friend @LAFoodStreetApp, the genius who coordinated the dozen or so food trucks on Rodeo Drive for FNO this year. Finally got to meet his friend @JoJoYo, one half of East of Highland, in person. I girl crush on her gorgeous smile and big brain.

Favorite experience of the night though was lolling around at Chanel, duh.

I may be biased but the iced tea TASTED like interlocking C's. I swear.

Loved peeping all the little FNO bags stacked up. Reminded me of the glorious gift bags at the Robertson Chanel boutique opening I went to years ago.

This time, though, the bags were filled with Jeans de Chanel nail polishes, available for purchase on FNO.

Don't tell Anna, but I didn't end up buying anything on FNO.

But if I had, it would have been these two pairs of shoes.

One for me and one for my mom.

The Outfits on FNO

The Outfit

H&M sweater

Laundry skirt

The Accessories

Forever 21 necklace and bracelets

Chanel bag and earrings

Tory Burch booties

Prada sunglasses

Michele watch

YSL bag

The Grade

The Commentary

I was dying to wear a totally fall outfit on Fashion Night Out: maxi skirt, boots, wool hat, leopard scarf. But the weather in LA wouldn't have it. Still 80 degrees at 5 pm.

Ended up pulling together a summer meets fall outfit. Stripes, black, leopard, booties. Basic. Blah.

Felt not quite fab enough. Thank god my new Prada baroque sunnies brought a little bit of the ferosh. And loving the bejeweled bib necklace...plus I do heart that bag...

My mom gets an A for her polka dots. Yum to her Chanel beige too.

Loved how she kept marveling at how dressed up everyone was. We decided we want it to be FNO every day in LA. Which means we want it to be NYC :)

The Inspiration

p.s. This was my favorite shot from FNO. Talk about surreal, right?

Spring 2012: Still Stripes

2011-09-11T17:41:00.000-07:00

The Scene

Last month, Jean Bean and Texas Cowboy FINALLY came to my bosom for a whirlwind L.A. visit.

On their last day, we took them to Bottega Louie for brunch

And USC for an old alum visit.

We reminisced about football games and volleyball classes

Marveled at the new student center and bemoaned not having a gastropub in our day.

Coveted elevator buttons. Yes, elevator buttons.

Peeped Ronald McDonald alumni wear

And slutty hot chick student barely there

We nearly broke a hip checking out a part of the bookstore that didn't exist when we were students.

We old. Thank god we cute!

The Outfit
American Eagle jeans
Forever 21 top

The Accessories
LA Fashion District hat
Tory Burch flats and bag
Arm Party

The Grade
A

The Commentary

Have practically lived in these jeans this summer.

Paired them with a summer knit top from F21. Isn't super flattering because of that blousy shape but I love the color combo. But it was like 14 dolla.

Added the arm party inspired by Man Repeller. And the fun purse to pick up the pink and the texture of the top.

Cherry on top: the hat. Mr. D loves the hat.

Happy the stripes will still be big next Spring. Here they are at Peter Som SS 2012

And Derek Lam's new lower priced line 10 Crosby---LOVING IT!

The Inspiration

Fall 2011: Taylor Tomasi Hill's Must Haves

2011-09-10T22:19:00.000-07:00

I am dying for the weather to turn in LA. I need some fall in my life already. Watch this dee-licious video and you will too

Taylor's Take: Taylor Tomasi Hill Styles Amanda Hearst in Her Fall Must-Haves

How to Mix Prints: Spring 2012

2011-09-10T19:53:00.000-07:00

The Outfit

Target feather top

J Crew skirt

The Accessories

Vintage quilted crossbody bag

Forever 21 flats

Random bracelets galore

The Grade

The Commentary

As fall quickly approaches, I wanted to share one of my favorite summer outfits. Couldn't believe the luxe-looking drape and print of this top when I found it at Target. $19. Want to live in it.

Mixed it with the little dotted skirt I nabbed at the J Crew outlet. The reversed out look is mixed prints perfection.

Still haven't mastered mixing prints? Get on it. It's a trend that's STILL all over the spring 2012 runways at NYFW.

Vivienne Tam

10 Crosby Derek Lam---new line I'm LOVING

The Inspiration

Awkward Dancing by Lanvin: Oh Alber!

2011-09-01T23:53:00.000-07:00

Long week. Traveling. So much to blog. But first this: the most refreshing ad I've seen in a looooooooong time. I LOVE when fashion meets funny. Taking yourself too seriously is so not haute.

TGIF and have a happy last weekend of summer!

Miu Miu Inspired and Forever 21 in Montreal

2011-08-28T23:41:00.000-07:00

The Scene

Snarfed crepes

Scaled Mount Royal for incredible city views

Peeped Notre Dame

Spied street art

And artsy streets

Paid homage to the legendary smoked meats at Schawartz's Deli

Stumbled upon an amazing flight of local beers

Perfectly romantical day in Montreal.

The Outfit

Forever 21 tank and shorts

The Accessories

Louis Vuitton bag

Forever 21 hat

Stuart Weitzman sandals

The Grade

The Commentary

I brought a disproportionate amount of shorts for our trip to the east coast. 5 pairs for a 7 day trip...on top of dresses galore. Dresses are my vacation go to. They pack so easy and I can change them up with scarves, necklaces, belts and shoes. Easy. Done.

But for this trip, since I've been in a fashion rut, I decided to challenge myself. I'm cray cray. Instead of just throwing on a dress to huff around in, I challenged myself to create casual and comfortable but still chic vacation looks with separates. No pressure. It's not like I'm feeling less than svelte and there was a major heat wave going on. Ugh.

Debuted these heart print shorts. Heart them. Chose them frankly because my hair was a hot mess and they matched the hat that I needed to wear. Found the shorts at F21 a few months ago and have been dying to wear them. Looooove that print. Clearly a Miu Miu resort 2011 rip-off. Wish I had it in a top, dress, pair of pants, scarf and heels. Added the simple drapey white tank, a big tote and flat sandals. Functional and fun for a long, hot, jam-packed day.

Would've been FEROSH to pair the Miu Miu inspired shorts with these real Miu Miu beauties

Good for standing relatively still peeping celebrities at an InStyle soiree.

Not so much for trying to be an in style tourist huffing around town.

The Inspiration

New Ice.com Website: $100 Giveaway

2011-08-23T21:30:00.000-07:00

Lately when it comes to jewelry, I'm thinking more is more.

These are a few of the pieces that are in heavy rotation right now.

Thanks to the new and improved Ice.com, I'm hosting another giveaway where you can win $100 to shop the great jewelry on their site. To participate in the contest, you simply need to visit the Ice.com homepage and answer the following question correctly by leaving a comment on the post: What is the Most Discussed piece of jewelry on the Ice home page?

I'll be choosing a winner at random on August 26 from all the participants who answered the question correctly. The winner can redeem the $100 prize by simply shopping using a link that I’ll provide.

. Prize Exclusions: Not applicable on sale or clearance items, watches, engagement rings or The Persona Charms Collection. Not applicable on taxes or shipping costs, and cannot be combined with any other offer.

Good luck!

Jean Paul Gaultier Exhibit Montreal Museum of Art

2011-08-22T20:05:00.000-07:00

As far as museum fashion exhibits go, this summer belonged to Alexander McQueen at the Met. But while I was in Canada I was able to see the Jean Paul Gaultier exhibit at the Montreal Museum of Fine Arts and was completely blown away. It will be traveling to Dallas in November and San Francisco in March of 2012. Run, don't walk.

I was struck by how much of McQueen's collections seemed referential to Gaultier's. Makes sense since Gaultier too was once dubbed fashion’s enfant terrible. He launched his first prêt-à-porter collection way back in 1976. Andy Warhol was among his earliest fans, saying: "I think the way people dress today is a form of artistic expression...Art lies in the way the whole outfit is put together. Take Jean Paul Gaultier. What he does is really art." His work like McQueen's is intellectual, sexually charged, vaguely macabre and often futuristic. It has a point of view. It is art.

The staging of the Gaultier exhibit was equally stunning to McQueen at the Met---room after glorious room of exquisite clothing that you can peep up close and personal. But the Gaultier show had one theatrical advantage: there were 30 animated mannequins who talk and sing in poetic vignettes kinda like that creepy hologram at the end of the Haunted Mansion ride at Disneyland. The faces change expressions and their line of sight randomly shifts down to your eye level so it felt like they were talking to you. OMG, they creeped me out. As a lapsed Catholic, the mannequins in religious, madonna garb were particularly disturbing.

As a fan of Madonna the whore, the exhibit is a dream. There were all her amazing Gaultier tour costumes (remember when I made my own version for a Madonna costume party!!???) Among the iconic garments, there are these great stories about the women that influenced Gaultier growing up and even the first corset he designed...for his teddy bear.

Gaultier has always used designs to tackle gender and transgender issues through provocative, gender-bending styles. But I think he may not get as much credit as he deserves because he doesn't seem like a particularly serious character. Everything he does has a tongue-in-cheek quality. There's something farcical about it so it's somehow not as threatening. Very Parisian.

Gaultier's love of stripes is also tres French. He says: "I've always loved the graphic and architectural aspects of stripes. My mother dressed me in sailor-striped sweaters. They go with everything, never go out of style and probably never will. There were also other influences: my grandmother, Coco Chanel, Jean Genet, Popeye..." Loooved that there were stripes galore in the gift shop to buy.

Alas I saved my pennies and made due with the free sailor hat everyone got with their exhibit tickets. Made Mr. Diabolina wear one for a picture. He hated every minute of it.

To be even more annoying, I put it back on when we got to the Canadian/American border later that afternoon. Border guy didn't bat an eye. F.

I wish I had had this Gaultier fabulousness to freak him out instead

p.s. Gaultier will be interviewing McQueen muse Lady Gaga in a CW special on September 12

What to Wear on a Date: Gay BFF Edition

2011-08-19T00:36:00.000-07:00

The Scene

Lashes Lawyer is my work BFF. I have no idea how I managed to exist for three decades on this planet without him. He is smart. He is kind. And he is important :)

So important that we all turned out to fete his pert ass on his recent bday.

Old friends and new came

Even one mama visiting from out of town!

I didn't stop laughing all night: See that JESUS LOVES YOU card?

LOOK at the inscription inside! Perfection.

Between cackles at LL's expense, we devoured steaks at Jar.

Not many carbs though. Lashes Lawyer doubles as my dietician during the work week. He is very strict. I am very not. **Hungry sigh**

We were allowed to snarf small slivers of cake though
(look at Mr. D's anxious eyes darting to LL as fat approaches the table!)

. After all a boy only turns 29 eight times ;)

The Outfit
J Crew dress

The Accessories
Faux Van Cleef earrings
Me&Ro necklace
Alexander McQueen heels
Vivienne Westwood clutch

The Grade
B

The Commentary

I've been with Mr. Diabolina for 98% of my adult life. So admittedly, I don't know much about dating. I figure the closest I get are my nights out with my gay BFFs.

And if you think about it, going out with a gay man tends to be more sartorially daunting. Most straight men just want to get clothes off of you , right? Whereas most of the gay men I love will actually notice what I'm wearing. They will comment on my fashion choices. They actually appreciate all the effort. Case in point: Lashes Lawyer and I planned our outfits together during the work day via IM. And he immediately demanded pictures with me the minute I walked into the restaurant. That's his sign that I've done good.

After going through a few options, I ultimately decided on a summery, flirty J Crew dress. I recently found it at the Cabezon outlets after stalking it in the stores for months. Adore that watercolor print and the Jessica Rabbit shape. It somehow feels retro but classic.

I wore it because it was occasion appropriate and I know LL loves uber femme looks. And, let me tell ya, it doesn't get more femme than a strapless dress where your boobs threaten to peek out all night! F.

But I guess nip slips are fun for everyone---boy or girl, gay or straight, 29 or 37.

Actually 29 year old nips are more fun but what can an old boob do...

The Inspiration

$100 Shopbop & Diane Von Furstenberg Giveaway

2011-08-18T13:16:00.000-07:00

Mr. Diabolina and I are officially ELDERLY.
Exhibit A: We are all about driving vacations lately.

Last month, we flew out to Montreal, then drove up to Quebec City for a day trip.

Absolutely loved it. The old walled city is like a little slice of Europe without the expense of leaving North America. So charming and picturesque and all the turrets!!! I'm a sucker for turrets. I think it's an English major/princess thing ;)

Highly recommend Quebec if you are looking for a little old world romance.

DON'T recommend that you dress old world though.

My designer of choice when I travel? Diane Von Furstenberg

DVF dresses, DVF blouses & tops, DVF clutches---I pack them all on trips.

The prints always make you look fabulous, feminine and pulled together. The shapes are comfortable and the materials aren't restrictive---they move with you as you get your nerdy tourist on :)

This Shopbop sale is one way to get your DVF on. But since I love anyone who is still reading my very sporadic posts, I'm giving away a $100 giftcard!!!

Before August 29, leave a comment below with your email address and/or Twitter handle so I can reach you if you win. Let me know what types of blog posts you like the most or fashion questions you have so I can focus on those in upcoming weeks. Good luck and big kisses!

Restrictions:

• No affiliate codes. If you're part of Shopbop's affiliate program, you can't get credit for this post.

• No Pennsylvania bloggers may host the giveaway. The contest is open internationally though.

InStyle Summer Soiree 2011: Mr. Brad, Ms. Jordy & Miu Miu

2011-08-11T23:31:00.000-07:00

The Scene

Went to the InStyle Summer Soiree at The London last night!

Emma Stone, I mean, Miss JordyPants invited me. Hearts her and any excuse to hear about her adventures in wedding photography and business and general twentysomething awesomeness.

First celeb we peeped upon arriving was Olivia Munn. OMG! She is hot like fire.

Now I get why all those nerds are bonkers for her. Almost keeled over when I saw THAT tiny pert ass in that tight white dress. Gave me a may-jor girl boner.

Hadn't downed my first glass of champagne when I saw THE most perfectly messy side bun.

It was attached to an amaze pair of legs in shorts. I couldn't see the girl's face but I was completely entranced with her graceful insouciance, how she carried herself, how she made her way through the crowd. Pointed her out to Miss JordyPants, practically drooling and again sporting major fashion girl wood.

We eventually saw the amazing face attached to the amazing legs and amazing bun: Diane Kruger. Ugh. No wonder she is every fucking designer's darling. She carries herself in a way that makes you want every single thing on her person. Very Euro nonchalant glam. Her head to toe look was my fave of the night.

As Ms. Jordy and I drank and ate and gabbed about friends, work and family, we'd discretely point out all the celebs walking by: Jamie King in a mash up of Olivia's and Diane's looks

Jennifer Love Hewitt in sequins

David Arquette looking sweet and a bit lost

Cat Deely

That Georginna from Gossip Girl

That Claire from the OG 90210

That teacher from Glee

And THAT'S SO RAVEN!

We had no idea that Kristin Chenoweth

Lea Michele

And Sarah Silverman---my favorite woman on Twitter---were also at the party.

Probably too busy peeping all the randomness at the party. Like the cigarettes scattered around. Very Mad Men. Don't think I've ever seen that before.

Also visited the Clarisonic demo cabana next to the Essie manicure cabana.

Talked to my favorite star of the night (Alison Janney) before getting our photo booth silly on.

Ended the night gabbing with my new favorite man on the planet, Mr. Brad himself. Ugh. He was even more lovely and charming and chatty than last time. We talked doggies, Trevor Project, Diane Kruger stealing his bow tie signature and that big deal book deal he just announced. Adore his face.

Esp. adore that upon seeing me, he lit up and said, "Let me look at you...Miu Miu heels...Stella clutch" Love a man with a photographic memory about accessories. We're kindred spirits like that.

Miss Jordy fell hard for him too...well before he complimented her adorable denim and sequin look. A+!

The cherry on top of a celeb-filled night out catching up with my oldest blogging friend? A gift bag stuffed with Essie and the Clarisonic that I've been DYING to try. Best gift bag haul I've seen in years, ladies. Forget the vagaries of Wall Street, I take that as a promising economic indicator.

But my favorite gifts of the night were the sweet tweets from Mr. Brad and Miss Jordy after the soiree

Not sure how I've lucked out with this life...with so many great peeps surrounding me...but I'm grateful...every day...every gift bag.

The Outfit
Forever 21 dress

The Accessories
Miu Miu heels
Stella McCartney cluth
Me&Ro necklace
Faux Van Cleef earrings and cuff

The Grade
Pass

The Commentary

Meh to my outfit tonight. Def not on par with the fashionistas that brought it at the event. Feel like I'm in a total fashion funk lately. Partly because I feel so out of shape, partly because I'm tired all the time which zaps my sartorial creativity.

Sure, the dress was cute enough. For $20 it's flirty and flowy in all the right places, making it look more pricey than it is. But there wasn't enough of a "wow" factor for the occasion. Nothing particularly on trend and definitely not fashion forward

Maybe if it was longer---like this midi---it would have felt more modern.

Wasn't sure the clutch was quite right either. I love it but I think my Chanel bag might have been the better choice.

At least I loved my shoes.

And how the print of the shoes mixed with the print of the dress.
Kicked everthing up a notch so it wasn't too Kate Middleton boring.

Best shoes of the night go to these Miu Mius.

Jenna Elfman's

Think maybe I would have felt better about the whole look if I'd spent a little more time on my hair and makeup. Made the bangs behave and the lips pop. Like this gorgeous child.

Sigh. 34's off to a bitch of a start.

The Inspiration